Men vs women . Why we are always different ?

Do you ever think why men and women are always opposite in any case ? Apparently , According to john gray in his book entitled man from mars, women from venus, tell  that one day long ago , the martians or man from mars , looking through their telescopes , discovered the venusians or women from venus . They fell in love quickly and flew to venus . The venusians welcomed the martians with open arms , Their hearts opened wide to a love they had never felt before . The love between the martians and venusians was magical . They delighted in being together , doing things together ,  and sharing together . For years they lived together in love and harmony . Then they decided to fly to Earth . In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful . But the effect of Earth’s atmosphere took hold , and one morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind of AMNESIA . SELECTIVE AMNESIA !  . Both the martians and venusains forgot that they were from different planets and supposed to be different . And since that day , man and women have been in conflict .

We can see the different between men and women around us or even we feel the differences between men and women . Most men have little awareness of how important it is to a woman to feel supported by someone who cares . Woman are happy when they believe their needs will be met . When a woman is upset , overwhelmed , confused , exhausted , or hopless what she need most is simple companionship . She need to feel she is not alone . She needs to feel loved and cherished . Emphaty , understanding , validation , compassion go long way to assist her in becomingmore receptive and appreciative of his support . Men don’t realize this because men instincts tell them it’s the best way to be alone when they are upset . When she is upset , out of respect he will leave her alone , or if he stays he makes matters worse by trying to solve her problems . He doesn’t instinctively realize how important closeness , intimacy , and sharing are to her . What she needs most is just someone to listen .

Women always use their feeling or their heart when they trying to solve their problem or anything  , but men always use their logic . It is why women always feel hurt rather than men .

Although , Women and men are difference , their differences was attractive. when the men were hard , the women were soft ,. When the men were angular , the women were round . Where the men were cool , the woman were warm . In a magical and perfect way , the differences seemed to complement each other . And the difference makes everything become more beautiful and wonderful J.